Raising a child is a constant work that cannot be passed on to someone else. Both the male and female sides must to participate equally in this process. Since men and women have their own psychology, hence the differences in education. The main contribution of a woman to raising a child is caring, tenderness and unconditional love. The man fosters responsibility and willpower in his child, applying at the same time exactingness and methodology. How not to bend stick in one direction or another is not an easy task. After all, excessive love of a mother can lead to a spoiled child, cultivate selfishness and narcissism in him. Excessive demands of parents lead to overwhelming perfectionism of the child, which in turn increases the risk of developing symptoms of depression and anxiety.

For the harmonious development of personality, each parent must adhere to the following simple rules when raising your child: control your attitude and emotions towards the child, give the child the right to choose and cultivate independence in him.

Our simple test will help you determine how demanding you are of your child, emotionally detached whether you are from him and whether he has enough parental love and affection.

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Test: What does your child need?

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1. (of 15): Sometimes it's a bit pitiful that a child will grow up and become an adult:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

2. (of 15): If the child tells a lie, then he most likely does not lie, but fantasizes:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

3. (of 15): Modern school programs are too complex:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

4. (of 15): The mother should serve as an emotional mediator between the child and the father, because fathers tend to be too strict:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

5. (of 15): If the child is busy with useful work, but he doesn’t succeed, he should also be praised for his efforts:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

6. (of 15): Naive spontaneity is rather a virtue of childhood, rather than a disadvantage:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

7. (of 15): If the child does not fall asleep in the dark, he needs a night lamp:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

8. (of 15): Many children's pranks are explained by the bad influence of peers:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

9. (of 15): Each child has their own virtues, which are much more important than shortcomings:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

10. (of 15): The child could achieve great success if the teachers treated him favorably:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

11. (of 15): When father and mother disagree on the behavior of the child, the opinion of the mother should be more important, since women are natural educators:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

12. (of 15): In childhood, everyone needs sports:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

13. (of 15): At the family table, the best pieces should be given to children:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

14. (of 15): Children's disobedience often arises from the fact that parents demand too much from a child:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;

15. (of 15): Having matured, the child will inevitably face difficulties in life, therefore the duty of parents is to protect him from them for the time being:

Select the only answer

а) yes;

b) no;